No matter what.............. it all comes down to respect for the other person and respect for yourself.
If you don't like being lied to then, don't lie!
If you want honesty, give honesty!
If you want love, give love!
If you want an answer, ask!
Don't ever assume the other person knows what you are feeling or know what you are thinking. Be clear, be open and honest............sometimes honesty hurts but, it is much better than being lied to. Even when a relationship hits a wall.........all you have to do is loosen one brick and ask for the rest to be removed.
Build a relationship with a strong, solid foundation........it's much harder to shake and breaking it is much more difficult.